Tuesday, July 8, 2014

Living Life In Overdrive

Our long and special weekend began with the Fourth of July.
My dear friend, Shelley, was here from State College.
Allan and Bev were also with us for the weekend.
It was great!!

Surprisingly the weather was cooler and windy on the fourth
so we ate on Georgia's porch.  
Warren grilled for us and we had Mom's traditional and delicious
potato salad.
It was delightful!

I don't even know if I have photos from those days.
They are a blur.

But on Sunday we were guests at a wedding shower 
for Michael and Emily.
It was so strange...and kind of cool....
to be "invited" to this event.
Usually if my kids are involved in something 
I am, as well, up to my elbows.
But in this case I knew nothing about it other than 
that Warren would be grilling and I was bringing water.

The wedding party took care of all of it with Emily's sister
Liza doing all of the organizing, planning and most of the 
work of it.
The Best Man, Chris, did assist her I am quite sure.

These were the table decorations
which perfectly reflected the artwork on the invitations.
So cool.

Michael and Emily found these country style drink dispensers 
a few weeks ago and were quite pleased.
They were perfect.

Front and center in the photo below is Emily's brother Caleb.
He is such a wonderful young man who now works with Chelsea.
We enjoyed Caleb and the rest of this family all of the way 
through our home educating years. 
They were a very important part of our co-op.

 Behind Caleb is Jonathan (in plaid) and my brother Allan (in blue).
I don't get to see Allan often enough.

 Mikey was pretty pleased that he was able to pull of the surprise
matching t-shirts.
I think he tries to not tell me things...and this was one of them.

 A party game that thankfully only involved the guys.
Normally this is done at Bridal Showers but in this case....

 I thought these guys made really horrific brides.
Thank goodness they are not meant to wear these anywhere.

I think Johnny could see this was not working out so well.

 The seriousness on both of these guys faces just cracks me up.
Love it!

 Jonathan enjoys a bit of the girls silliness.
Later he would join the guys in a very hot and active 
game of ultimate frisbee.

 Johnny wanted to take a walk down by the river and so I suggested he take my camera 
and get some photos.
He did a great job.

 Apparently Chelsea and Grandma Georgia joined him because they showed up in 
the photos. 
Chelsea doesn't love wearing yellow but it is the bridesmaid color 
and so she was asked to wear it that day.
I happen to like it on her.
What a delightful event this was.
And I am so thankful for all of the work that went into 
making it so special for the bride and groom to be.
The wedding day will be here before we know it!

Also ongoing all weekend long was planning for Chelsea's 19th
birthday party.
She is a great party planner and so had every detail in place.
Each day had its assigned duties up until shopping on Monday morning
for the food that we weren't making.

Monday afternoon we cooked and baked.
BBQ, Pasta Salad, she iced the cupcakes, Grandma Georgia made 
the cake, Grandma Ruth made two huge bowls of her amazing 
potato salad.
So, if you are counting that makes THREE bowls of potato 
salad from Mom this weekend. 
Its that good!
Mikey helped her get tables and Emily came early to 
help her set up.
I had to take a little rest while they put the final details together.
I'm not the energizer bunny I once was.
But they are young and strong with lots of great ideas 
and the ability to pull it all off.

And then the guests began to arrive.

 One large group of co-workers had car trouble and then got lost 
and so they arrived quite late....
but we were SO happy they kept trying and finally found us.
They livened things up a lot.
I don't have any photos of them, though, because by then 
I was in full mama/hostess mode.

Activities included eating...of course...
volleyball, tree climbing, Dutch Blitz, 
Singing around the fire and a lot of visiting.
Johnny was so happy to find a co-worker of Chelsea's who grew 
up in Germany.
They chatted a while.
He loved it and felt so much at home with someone who
understands his culture.

Chelsea had made labels for just about everything.
They were so cute!

Chips and pretzels got their own table
but the real food was behind this fence.

 I love seeing friends enjoying time together.
These two have been buds since Kindergarten.

 Newlyweds, Joseph and Lindsay enjoying our Chloe.
I suspect that Lindsay was plotting a diet for our sadly obese pooch.
Last night didn't help that situation at all.
She found much on the ground and reminded me of 
Templeton the Rat in Charlotte's Web.
By the end of the evening she looked uncomfortable.

 Two special guests.
Melissa and Grandma Georgia.
Melissa has been friends with my kids and myself for a good long while.
I'm glad she could make it after a migraine that morning.
Grandma Georgia made Chelsea's birthday cake.  
It is tradition!

 These three have such busy lives that they struggle to find times when all three
can be together.
However, when they do it is a natural and very fun time.
It makes the effort worthwhile.
 And then it was time for Cake and Ice Cream.
Emily lit the candles!
 19 candles lit it UP!
 Michael "helped".
And then supervised.
What a blessed evening.
Thanks to all who helped to make it so special.
You are so important to us.

Happy Birthday, Chelsea!!

Wednesday, July 2, 2014

I Remember This Feeling

It was the last year of our home education.
Chelsea was graduating early.
I was about to be out of a job.....one that I was both
sad and happy to see go.
Home School Teacher.

There is this feeling of transition.
In most things I would tell you that I love change.
I am easily bored and need a varied routine.

This whole shift from parent of teens 
to parent of adults is taking its toll.
Not because my young ones are bad.
Couldn't be further from the truth.
They are amazing!!

If you've been reading along you know that we have 
had a very happy few months.
Things are constantly changing here and we are having
fun together.
my "kids" are less and less dependent on me all of the time.

They make their own decisions.
One is getting married.

One is seeking the Lord's will for the next couple of years in her life.
Sometimes her answers clash with my dreams.
Can you believe it???
And yet she is finally at peace with her Lord.
And that is exactly what we hope for, right?

Another has been patiently waiting for a full time position
to open up for him and continues to wait.
He has been through so much in the past few years
and has come through stronger and such 
a dear young man.
Perhaps soon the timing will be right
and God will say "Yes".

I know this feeling.
It is the one that says I just want the world to 
slow down a bit and let me get my bearings.
It is the one that grieves for all that I thought I knew.
It is the one that rejoices in God's Goodness even through 
the pain of this refining process.

I also remember that in times past He has shown 
Himself so faithful in everything.
He gives us what is best for us....
in His timing.

Sometimes we are right about what we wish 
and hope for but our timing is just wrong.
Other times we are sadly mistaken in what we are hoping 
for but He allows short term pain for the longer good.

I have no idea which this will end up being
but I choose to trust.

Even as my heart hurts.
And lets go.....
Just a bit more.

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

Fun at Longwood Gardens

Chelsea and Johnny call me 
their Paparazzi.

They invite me to come along to the gardens
because they know I will gladly shoot photo after photo.

 In search of a new Facebook Profile picture Chelsea loved this cheery spot.
It worked quite nicely.

Every time we try to take photos they end up making
silly faces and giggles.

Chelsea took this one.
Cute, huh?

We were happy to see the roses in full bloom.
What a special thing to look forward to each year.

They may look comfy and cool
but it was pretty hot and humid in the sun.

Apparently I am quite funny in trying to coax
genuine smiles.

Flowers, real flowers.
This is a garden after all.
I am very much entranced by the ever changing
beauty in this place.

And then came lunch.
Johnny chose well.

 Chelsea took the camera to work on a new 
Facebook profile pic for Johnny.

 The winner.

I love, love, love the veggie garden.
Just look at this lettuce.
Doesn't it just make you happy?

 In the middle of the veggie garden is this
 adorable little

Johnny found it as charming as I do.
I just knew he had good taste.

 Chelsea discovers the fun.

 Wishing for some iced coffee, I imagine.

 Then Chelsea spotted this interesting flower and 
took the camera from me once again. 

 When it comes to personality types
Johnny and I are very much alike.
Chelsea and Warren are very similar.
And so, Johnny and I have a blast together.
We both love to tease and laugh.
 I wanted a couple of photos to remember this craziness.
These aren't the craziest but a couple that Chelsea took.
 Then we forgot we were posing and Chelsea snuck behind us
and snapped this.

 Up next mother and daughter as shot by Johnny.

 We are so blessed to call this girl daughter.
She is seeking God's will for the next phase of her life.
Is it Culinary School?
Continuation of her job and working with local refugees from Burma?
Something she doesn't even know about yet?
All she wants to know is what it will be.
So, prayers are so welcome!

 I got the camera back.  

 This will make  more sense in just a moment.
 Matching Roses photos.
My goodness, these two are fun.
Hope you enjoyed this photo journal of our day.

And now....
keeping it low key I am whispering.
Today is Warren's 50th birthday.

Happy Birthday to my awesome husband.
I love you to pieces.

God truly blessed me when He gave me you.